Kaibigan O' Ka-i-bigan?

I once had a lunch party in Glorietta 5 with friends and colleagues to celebrate a birthday. We had a lot of fun of course, sharing sumptuous meals and endearing stories to one another.

Well, mostly when it comes to "Kwentuhan" you can almost bet that I am one of the talkative whatever topic it may be, well save for girlie talks, of which I do not really that participative as girls are usually hesitant to converse with the presence of a guy.

Obviously, as man would be on their case, well except those men that really demeans the meaning of self-respect.

Well, for our kwentuhan on this article, I would like to share this topic about self respect boys and girls, which for me seems quite unfair. Really. Two ways that is, the 1st way is like this:

I was talking to a dear friend with her friend beside her (who-is quite a nuisance by her inexplicable actions, which seems unnecessary sometimes, hihihi???). And this friend of mine approached me with the statement: "Ward, sana di ka sweet pagdating sa mga girls, kasi baka ma-misinterpret nila and may chance na ma-fall in-love sila sayo agad, without you knowing it"

...and her friend just agreed on her statement, yeah of course, giggling again...hihihi...

That was a statement that left me blushing, not because of shame or due to shyness, but of course hearing that statement, is totally one-sided, and from a dear friend of mine. It was quite difficult for me accept the fact the it came from her.

Well, if you were on my shoes? what will you answer? seriously?

...and that giggle again...

Practically, when I am approach stupidly, I answer stupidly. But this is something quite cute. So I tell my friend: "I think it's unfair, being committed someone because you thought that he cares and loves you just because he is sweet and extraordinary with the other guys in treating you. You can't just tell yourself that I am in Love with you because of my traits towards women and towards you.

You can't just manufacture a relationship with him just being malambing. You-have-to-wait-for-the-man-to-tell-you-he-loves-you! (Pls pls, never presumed!)

You got to respect him and respect yourself with it, wait for him to propose, and that's the right time you can say to yourself that he is in love with you. Respect him and you will see every men will respect you.

...and that giggle again...(You see, I really like this part! She keeps doing it, I'm dead serious!)

The Luncheon was finished and we are all full, but the topic was not settled, the girls keep pressing that women are really like that, fell in-love with a man so easily without a decent proposal and devastatingly cries when it turns out the other way. (I used "girls" 'coz it is really immature to think that way, even when I used the term "immature", that girl giggles, again!)

Ooops! By the Way, the 2nd way is: It was unfair, as it directly referred to me. Being sweet and malimbang is a unique personality of Ilonggo's (this statement is not to demean others, I appreciate them too). We often joke that, Ilonggo's sweetness remains even if on the verge of threatening someone of death!

Yeah, Patyon! kita diyan eh! (Pataytin kita diyan eh!) well, smiling, soft voice, and holding a knife.

Hihihihi (Darn?!?!?)

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Old Binondo, Background of my new blog courtesy of Donald Lamsen.

Thanks to Don for emailing me pictures of the old Manila. I love fondling the key of my laptop giving the picture the best possible tiling to make sure the it will fit as my new blog background.

Ipagtibay ang kulturang Pinoy!

Anong Klaseng Magulang Ka?

Mas pinili kong magkwento sa tagalog ngayon dahil sa inis ko!!!

Nang mapanuod ko sa youtube ang video footage ng isang suicide incident sa Pampanga nung Setyembre 20, 2011. Sobra ang inis ko sa mga tao, guwardiya at namamahala ng tanyag na mall na yan.

Bakit kayo nagpalakad lakad at pa-picutre picture lang diyan? mga anak kayo ng nanay at tatay niyo! mga wala kayong &%$(&^&!!!

Gumagalaw pa yung bata, hindi niyo tinakbo sa hospital?

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Tama na yan! marami akong gusto sabihin, pero tama na. Di na mababago ang lahat, sana hindi kayo maging magulang ng mga batang naging "bakla" at magbarilan sa mall, at ang anak mo ay nakahandusay, duguan, at naghihingalo habang tinitigan, pinipicturan ng mga guwardiya at management ng mall!

Ika nga ni Lourd Dey Vera: Kung mas malakas pa ang impluwensiya ng mga pelikula, babasahin at websites sa anak mo, anong klaseng magulang ka?

Tapos!